Random + Song List of the Moment

I guess I owe my reader an apology since I haven't been updating my blog for a long while.

But I wasn't being lazy as I am really busy recently. 

It's coming to an end for my practiccum period and I wanna do my best so I've spent most of my time preparing and planning for teaching. 

I'm not gonna lie, there are time for me to relax, 

but most of the time I was out chilling with my roomie.

(social life is important as well.) :P

Otherwise,

I'll be in bed sleeping like a bear in hibernation. 

So, this is just a random post to sort out what I did for the past few weeks. 

I wasn't planning to blog about my trip in Penang nor Lombok since I haven't finish processing the pictures. 

So I was thinking about something light and chilly for today :)

So yea, 

if you guy follow me in facebook you probably knew I have been quite sick.

I have blister all around the side of my lips. 

I have seek for doctor's advise and spent RM 25 on a two minutes check-up, with a pack of antiseptic cream, antibiotics and painkiller pills. 

And yet, nothing has changed.

I still have cracked lips especially at the sides. 

So instead of applying the cream given by the doctor, 

I start using Vaseline's advance preteoum jelly

It's stated there 'especially for cracked lips' So I thought I'd give it a try. 

Besides, I also applied watermelon frost every night before I sleep. 

So that green colour in the picture was actually the medicine. 

And turn out, they give a better improvement than the doctor's medicine. 

My lips now are feeling better.

Thank God. 

Secondly, I got a scar at my hand due to clumsiness. 

It was the day where me and my roomie were rushing to watch the ultimate moon eclipse. 

Since we were rushing, I ran and hit the side of the aluminium table at the bone of my hand. 

*Ouch!* I know it. 

Ended up we didn't see the real moon eclipse but a wind make a super nice face eclipse.

We thought the eclipse process was super fast this time as it ended within 1 minute. 

The next day we knew that we were fooled when we read the news. =.=

Anyway, I also went to Tok Aman Bali Hotel at Tok Bali during one of the weekend. 

Was planning to do some sort of shooting but ended up just one LOL. 

Okay okay I know it's pretty boring so let me share with you some songs that have currently in my playlist. 

For those EDM:

Hyperlove by Ferry Corsten ft Nat Dunn

Runaway (U & I) by Galantis

Waiting for Love by Martin Garrix, Avicii ft John Legend

Don't Look Down by Martin Garrix ft Usher

Colors by Hardwell, Tiesto and Andraes Moe

p/s: Basically the whole album of Hardwell United We Are are AWESOME!

Don't miss them :)

For Pop Culture:

Ayo by Chris Brown ft Tyga

Worth It by Fifth Harmony ft Kid Ink

Love Me Like You Do by Ellie Goulding

Earned It by The Weekend

Some not-so-mainstream:

Gold by Chet Faker

I Know You by Sylar Grey

Witchcraft by Frank Sinatra 

So yea that's basically in my playlist right now.

Hope you guys have a pleasant week ahead. 

Best of luck :) 

Every Women Should Be A Bitch

I am guessing you guys must be shock by the title?

Yes,

EVERY GIRL DESERVE TO BE A BITCH.

By that I mean GIRLS' RIGHT.

In Malaysia,

we are bounded to so many boundaries and customs.

I know it's not only happening in my country, 

but many other Asians countries as well.

where there are so many limitation to a girl.

I am not saying men are useless.

because God created everyone with their own rights,

But I am seeing so many women out there,

shutting their mouth, locking their talent inside their head

just because the society tell them to do so. 

The wearing

The actions

The thoughts

Girls are forbidden to talk to speak out what we want

Girls are not allowed to stand in the front line to lead

In some places, girls are even restricted to education. 

I have came across with so many girls out there who don't dare to speak out their minds

Some are 'brain washed' to believe that girls are suppose to be soft (in my opinion, weak), and obey to whatever f*ck the hell are given to them.

It's pathetic to see so many girls here are scared, or thought to be scared to voice out what they have in their head, and to show the world what they have.

I am especially speaking this to the women out there.

Where YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE AFRAID OF ANYTHING.

Because

YOU ARE SPECIAL.

AND YOU ARE ONE OF THE GOD'S CREATIONS.

SO WHAT ARE YOU AFRAID OF?

1)You are not men's slaves

You do not need to be obey to everything the man tells you to do

You are human, not robot.

You have your own rights.

Do not be afraid of them.

RESPECT THE MAN when they are doing the right thing

BUT if they are behaving irrationally,

why do you keep silent?

Simply KICK THEM IN THE BALLS WHEN IT'S NEEDED.

2) You are far more gifted than you think you are.

God creates everyone with gift.

You have your own.

If you are the one who deserve the highest place in the class

Do not afraid to grab it.

If you are capable to speak in front of the crowd,

MAKE THEM SCREAM FOR YOU.

Do not waste the gift that God's given to you.

3) You are NEVER WRONG to choose on your own

Why are you scared of those who judges you?

You are human and you deserve what you want.

If you want to do something,

say yes.

And if you refuse to do something people asked you to do,

JUST SAY THE FUCK NO.

4) BE BRAVE, cause girls, YOU DESERVE BETTER

Just because you are a human without muscular body and testosterone,

it doesn't mean that you can't do the thing you dream of.

Don't fucking care those who judge you, laugh at your decisions.

whenever you feel like doing something to chase after your dream

Be brave

MAKE NOTHING STOPS YOU

5) Whatever challenge that you face, DON'T EVER GIVE UP

In this world full of scepticism, 

I am sure we, girls, will face damn lot of challenge in our path of chasing our dreams.

There will be people who look down on you,

doubt on your talent

judge you,

and even reject you.

But what is more important,

Is that you BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

BELIEVE IN GOD

AND NEVER STOP CHASING AFTER YOUR DREAM.

Good luck :)

Two Celebrities That Inspire Me A Lot in My Life

Let's talk something about me today.

If you would have known, 

I usually don't talk much about myself in the blog,

which I don't know why,

but I think it's because I think that my life is just so beautiful

and so decent like the other people out there.

So, people wouldn't care much about it.

Don't ya?

Plus, 

if you have a beautiful life, 

you will just enjoy the life instead of spending the whole time blogging about it and waste the beautiful timing.

So that's why I don't talk about my life much.

Sometimes I did, 

if you have follow my blog since few years back.

I did talk about myself, 

but definitely not much about it.

and when I talk about it, 

it's all about some very emotional thing about me.

which I don't really want that in my blog.

You know,

Eleanordreamland is the blog that I first created in the motives of showing how great life can be.

The name itself tells people that it's a dream land, which means the land of what you dream of.

And people cannot just live in dream, but to try and achieve it.

I always tell myself that things that you dream will not be just a dream when you have the guts and the idea of doing it, and then you make it happen,

keep on trying and trying, 

fall down and raise again,

never give up until you are satisfied.

And that's why I name this blog as a dreamland. A land of dreams to be achieved and has achieved.

It's full with hope and happiness,

not about sadness and crap that annoys people's emotion.

And THAT is the main reason I don't blog about my inner self, the part where I am down and upset.

I want to make this blog like a real happy place.

A place that cherish people and make people happy,

definitely will be greater if I even can motivate people out there in their life.

So today I am going to share with you guys two of the celebrities women that inspire me a lot in my life.

I know there are so many great women out there (including my beloved mum),

but there're less celebrities women that can inspire me as much as these two women can do.

They are

Angelina Jolie 

and 

Victoria Beckham.

Okay, 

Can you guys discover what's the same thing that Angie and Victoria own,
besides the great body figures and beautiful features?

It's their families.

I would say Asian have something very strong about their families.

And I cannot deny that I love European cultures,

like how they talk in manners and civilized thoughts.

But at the same time, I am terrified by how fragile the relationships grown in European countries.

It's like a bubble that can break any time by just touching it.

And it struck me, giving me a perspective that European can't understand love.

I once had a European boyfriend. ONCE.

And it too broke my heart very deeply even until now.

(I'll keep the rest personal).

and it is nothing much difference from what my perspective had once told me.

and I don't know why I am even so dumb to believe that I am able to change one person's thought.

But anyway, 

these two women have lead a really pretty life I have seen in the screen.

In entertainment industry it's all about break ups and divorces.

Cheats and lies.

But these two women stay strong with their families

and you cannot judge them in this because the news tells it all.

Unless you see Brad Pitt and David hang out in a bar, which so far, NONE.

You see 

how beautiful when LOVE is contented?

First let's talk about Angelina Jolie.

She and Brad has so many children to take care of,

and she herself had just gone through a preventive double mastactomy.

If her family is a mess Brad would have leave her and let her alone with the kids but no,

Brad supported her all the way through the hardships.

(and you should know how much pain is it to a women with her well know body shapes to lose her precious beauty).

So you see how much love is shown here?

On top of that,

Angie is noted for her work with refugess as a Special Envoy and former Goodwill Ambassador of the United Nation High Commisioner for Refugees.

It just show how much love is contained in her. 

The kids that she adopted is not left alone but also been taken a very good care with the support of her fiancée. 

You know most of the nowadays guys don't like so much of kids,

even I myself being a girl prefer just two kids at home.

But GOSH Angie has SIX CHILDREN IN DA HOUSE!

I cannot not give these two people a thumbs up!

and this motivates me to adopt kids as well,

which was totally not cool in Asian countries.

I have that told to my parents and my friends, even the boy friends.

So far no one really support me and I cannot blame them because it's so rare in asian country.

Well, we'll see how.

Next, Victoria Beckham.

Victoria herself is a legend.

She is a model, a host, a fashion designer, a wife and a mum of four kids.

Honestly I don't like her at the first sight because she look super cool in every of her photos, make me feel like she's the bitch in the house.

I thought that she must have over powered David and that's why David can't leave her (sort of like scared of her or something like that)

But I am amazed after looking at how she and Beckham raise their family.

And that's how I start to understand this family even more.

I feel even more astonished when I see reports about how they raise their kids 

( e.g: Brooklyn got his first part time job in just a coffee shop while his parents can do well in their financial).

It feel so amazing that this parents are not pampering their kids.

And I definitely believe that Beckham love his family as they always have their family privatized from any media and press.

They lead a private life even though they are one of the most popular couples to the industry.

And Vicotria is a very determined person.

She is a perfectionist, 

she is always confident about herself (especially in high heels ha!) 

and also she really look like a very hardworking person in real life (from what I saw in her interviews).

If that's the true I really want to be like her.

A perfect person which wanted more and more,

never gives up and never pamper yourself that it could destroys you.

I just love this two women.

I may not be them,

but I can try to be them

They are my inspiration,

my example of my future life would be (except being a celebrities lol).

Cause a family with love and understatement is all I ask for.

And I once learnt something about love, 

that I want to share with you guys,

That Love,

is a road

where both parties are willing to rides together.

Even with hills and mountains,

storms and thunders,

this two parties will not be separated.

Vice versa.

A Girl with Messed-up Brain

Hey there I am back.
I need to apologies upon the no-update September.

Things has turn really bad last month. 

And when I said 'really bad', it means the "real real bad" month.

I have never feel so helpless.

It doesn't mean nobody wanna help me

My friend treat me well.

They love me.

My parents love me.

It's just things turn so hopeless until a state it's uncontrollable.

I wanna make things right but it takes so much of me that it almost kill me.

I want someone to rely on so I hope for God.

But my faith didn't stay strong when I still feel so hopeless and lonely all the time.

I need someone to rely on, 

Someone physically and mentally prepared to listen and comfort a almost torn out baby.

I  hope I can express.

But I am damn bad at it.

When I talk, I keep smile.

As if nothing can hurt me.

I Am the Kind of Girl

I've always posted entires about my activities, and today I am going to post something about me.

Things happen like a mess this year and make me think more and love more of myself.

There're three ways to describe about girl like me:

1) I'm the kind of girl that doesn't speak out her mind, or doesn't know how to do so.

I'm very poor in speaking out my mind. 

You can say I'm very poor in communication.

And yes, I have experiences in some argument due to my poor selection of vocabularies, and cause me lots of trouble.

You may see that I bla a lot in blog, but in real life, 

when it come to communication, 

ESPECIALLY DURING SERIOUS TALK, 

I failed.

2) I'm the kind of girl that look tough but deep down, she's weak like hell. 

and she hates it.

I have a hard time admitting that I'm weak. 

In some case, it is known as over-confident.

When comes to relationships, it's worse cause I can't handle a relationship well.

Seriously poor in these cases.

And I HATE it.

3) I'm the kind of girl that hope for the best for the one that I love, but always did it in the wrong ways.

As what I've stated before, I'm very bad in communication.

And so when i did anything good for the one I love, I have always thought that they will know and understand me. So I keep silence like an idiot.

but in fact, love need to speak out.

that's one of the wrong ways I have always done and have never changed.

Another wrong way of loving a person is that, I keep myself way too easy-going until people think that I'm a boring person.

When it comes to a person that you love, you tend to follow what they love, and god-damn-knows I am not a easy-going person. I am actually very strong in my opinion and things that I want. But who knows I will melt whenever it comes to love? sh*t it.




Will you love my personal entry better?
Or should I just talk about my usual stuff?

Let me know!

女兒怎樣養才算是富養呢？

Came across a very great essay in fb and quickly paste it down here.

Because I scared i will lose it if I didn't do so. ><

A very great message to all the people out there. 

And when I say about people..

It mean ALL PEOPLE

not only girls, even thought the title said it so.

女兒怎樣養才算是富養呢？

楊瀾三四歲寄居上海外婆家時，年輕的舅舅常在領了工資的周末帶她去最高級的紅房子餐廳吃西餐，去淮海路照相，去看最新潮的立體電影。長輩責怪他為個小孩子亂花錢，他說，女孩子就要見世面，不然將來一塊蛋糕就把她哄走了。
如果家境好，不妨讓女兒多見識繁華世界，眼界的開闊讓女孩更聰明，注意和培養虛榮心區別開來。如果沒條件，那麼讓她多看書，一本好書才十幾二十塊，卻能讓女兒發現外面的世界多精彩。
女孩富養，其主要真義是從小要培養她的氣質，開闊她的視野，增加她的閱世能力，增強她的見識。 “富養”的女孩，因見多識廣、獨立、有主見、有智慧，很清楚自己要的是什麼，什麼是真正值得追求的東西。等她到花一樣的年齡時，就不易被各種浮世的繁華和虛榮所誘惑。女孩最應該培養的品質首先是善解人意，她有一個好的性格，能控制自己的情緒，對給予她幫助的人都心懷感激，是一名優雅的淑女。
一位父親曾這樣教育他的女兒：“一個男人要變得高貴，那是一件不太容易的事，他要有成功的事業，要有尊貴的地位，要有足夠的錢財，要有良好的學識和修養……一個女孩要變得高貴則十分簡單——她並不是一定要有公主的身份，豪門的背景，華麗的服飾，貴族的教育……她只需做一件事，那就是像花蕾一樣把自己嚴嚴地包裹起來。就是要和那些臭小子保持距離，永遠尊重自己的身體和心靈。不管什麼年代，不管是東方還是西方，對於兩性來說，一個女孩只要凜然不可侵犯，她在男人心中一下就會高貴起來。這個跟什麼年代沒關係，跟什麼地域沒關係，所謂新潮的觀念都是暫時的。”

一、擁有品位
女孩到了二十幾歲後，就要開始學著用心的經營自己了，它體現在自己的外表以及涵養上，每一個女孩都是特別的，都應該有自己獨特的品位，可能很多女孩會覺得品位與時尚或奢侈品是掛鉤的，其實不是，品味是一個人去觀察事物時的態度，同樣的東西，不同的人眼光下會出現著不同的版本，物品本身的價值與品位的高低是沒有關係的，女孩要用自己的目光去欣賞一件東西，用高級的品味去挑選東西。
在某些程度上，一個人的品味與她的氣質是相輔相成，品位的高低取決於一個女孩在日常生活裡對新事物的發現，品位是自己獨特的味道，每個女孩都要有自己的品味，一個廉價的飾品只要戴出了屬於它的另類，它也能夠表現出自己的品味。平常的時候可以多看看時尚雜誌，提升一下自己對服飾等的欣賞度。
女孩到了二十幾歲後，就已經開始慢慢的接觸社會了，在與別人交往的過程中，談吐與修養是最能征服別人的。我不相信一個不喜歡看書的女孩，她會是充滿智慧的。沒事的時候，去到書店逛逛，認真的挑幾本可以提升自己的書籍買回家閱讀，不管是名著還是理財方面的或是激勵方面的，都有值得我們學習的地方，書可以讓人們的生活豐富，也可以讓人們的思想改變，選擇閱讀一本好書，勝過一個優秀的輔導師。

二、養成看書的好習慣
喜歡看書的女孩，她一定是沉靜且有著很好的心態，因為在書籍的海洋裡，女孩可以大口的吸收著營養。喜歡看書的女孩，她一定是出口成章且優雅知性的女人。認真的閱讀，可以讓心情平靜，而且書籍裡暗藏著很大的樂趣，當遇到一本自己感興趣的書時，會發現心情是愉悅的，而且每一本書裡都有著很大的智慧，閱讀過的書籍都會是女孩社交中的資本，相信沒有人會喜歡與一個膚淺的女孩交往。選擇了合適的書本，它能夠教會人很多哲理，以及會讓你學會以一種平和的心態去迎接生活裡的痛苦或快樂。真正有品位的女人，都有喜歡看書的習慣。

三、要試著發現生活中的美
女孩到了二十幾歲後，就要逃離那些灰暗的小說，它只會讓大家與悲傷越貼越近，生活並不是小說裡情節的翻版。不要總提醒著自己遇到的不幸，要知道在這個世界上有著很多人比你還不幸，只要能夠抬頭看到陽光就是幸運的，那些生活裡的挫折比起一個人的人生它只不過是一個再小不過的插曲。想在這個社會上立足，就要有平和的心態，在患得患失的人生里，我們時刻都在選擇著，也被別人選擇著，我們應該有著阿Q精神，痛苦與快樂的生活都是我們選擇的，為什麼要讓自己沉溺在痛苦中呢？
有些人因為情感或工作上的挫折而讓自己陷入一種不幸的思想中，而導致著她們會成為悲觀的人，不管做什麼事情都有著恐懼，怕輸，或是覺得自己不會成功。一個人把自己標榜成什麼樣，她就只能生活在自己給自己設下的心牢裡，誰有資格說自己不會成功？誰敢說自己不會成功？想成功的人都是樂觀的人，悲觀永遠都是成功的阻礙，只有積極向上的情操才會讓生活變得美好，相信明天一定比今天會好，只要你努力了，社會一定是公平的，不要報怨生活，否則只能證明你自己沒有真正的去努力。

四、跟有思想的人交朋友
女孩到了二十幾歲後，就要開始有目的性的去選擇朋友，社會中的人脈非常的重要，而你選擇加入的朋友圈也會對你的人生有著很大的影響，如果你的朋友都是一些積極向上樂觀的人，你也會被他們感染的，如果你的朋友是一個悲觀主義者，整天只知道報怨生活，卻不會腳踏實地的工作，時間久了，你同樣會被感染的。人在選擇朋友的時候很重要，有時候如果想了解一個人，也可以從他的朋友是什麼樣的人來了解他的為人。不要輕易的交朋友，也要注意選擇跟什麼人交朋友。

一個好的朋友可以讓你的人生有著很大的改變，他會讓你變得樂觀。女孩到了二十幾歲後，要多一些朋友，自私一點也就是說，要多交一些對自己有幫助的朋友，你可以從他們的身上學到東西，但是想交朋友，你就要對他們付出真誠，不要只是為了想利用他們才與他們交往，沒有人是傻子，你對別人好與不好，別人也都清楚的看得到。用自己的真誠與那些有思想的優秀人交朋友吧！

五、要遠離泡沫偶像劇
女孩到了二十幾歲後還喜歡看偶像劇，那說明你就太幼稚可笑了。現在就要開始遠離那些虛假的偶像劇了，電視裡的白馬王子與灰姑娘都是生活裡的男孩或女孩嚮往的，它不是真的存在的，像電視劇裡出現的一些情節有時候也深深的影響到了人們的觀念。比如一些電視劇裡會出現惡毒的婆婆，或是發現深愛自己的人竟然是自己的親兄妹等，這些情節就是為了讓人們的情緒波動的，它並不能與現實生活掛鉤，它是超越了生活的，女孩子不應該再沉溺於這種造假的童話氛圍裡了，有時間多看一些能夠幫助自己的節目。
想了解社會並不能通過那些泡沫偶像劇，它們是毒，有些人中毒很深時，就會讓它們直接影響自己的人生觀與價值觀，像一夜暴富或是一夜間一貧如洗在生活里或許會有，但不會像電視劇裡播放的那些簡單而直接，愛情與親情也沒有影片裡的那樣絕決與殘忍，偶像劇會影響人們對社會的判斷能力，所以，請遠離泡沫偶像劇。相信一個優秀的女孩，不會花大把的時間沉溺在偶像劇裡的。

六、學會忍耐與寬容
女孩到了二十幾歲後，就要慢慢的學會忍耐與寬容了，社會並不是一個任性的地方，那些大小姐的脾氣要慢慢的收斂了，因為可能有些時候就因為你的計較會讓你失去自尊，成為被人指責的沒有教養的女人。給那些不友好的人善意的微笑，即能夠讓對方無地自容，也能夠給別人留下大度且善解人意的好印象。忍耐並不是懦弱，也不是傷自尊，而是寬容美。請放下理直氣壯的壞脾氣，在適當的時候讓一步，不僅可以體現出你的涵養，而且還會讓你成為受人歡迎的女孩。
生活裡經常會遇到很多不公平的事情，也會遇到很多讓你無法接受的人，我們不能試著去改變別人，與其非常憤怒的大聲指責別人的行為，不如懷著理解的心態給對方一個微笑，任何一個人都不會去傷害一個善良的人。聲嘶力竭的與別人爭論並不能贏得所謂的自尊，反而讓你丟掉自尊。

七、培養健康的心態，注意自己的身體
女孩到了二十幾歲後，就要學會調節自己的心態，以及好好的保護自己的身體。身體是最重要的，相信每個人都知道，但是在真的做起來時，並不是一件簡單的事情。二十幾歲的女孩在飲食方面已經應該開始注意了，建議多看一些關於飲食方面的書。任何一個女孩，千萬不要為了這樣或那樣的理由不照顧自己的身體健康，不管明天有多麼的美好，而你總是以一副生病的姿態去迎接它，也並不會感覺到它的美好的。

八、讓美貌成為自己的資本
女孩子年輕這就是美貌，沒有醜女只有懶女。一般女孩子只要稍加打扮都會有自己獨特的美麗。女孩到了二十幾歲後，就要開始讓你的美貌發揮作用了，在適當的時候讓你的美貌掌握著足夠的發言權。漂亮的外貌並不是每個女孩都擁有的，讓漂亮的外貌成為你的資本，在需要的時候用使用一下，它可以開啟你人生中的很多困境，雖然有時候有人說漂亮的女孩都是花瓶，但是花瓶如果擺在了合適的位置，它就是藝術品。女孩的青春美貌也只是短短的數年，所以要善於利用你的美貌。
但是女孩不能因為有了美貌就可以陷入自滿中，有著美麗的外表又有著智慧的內在才是優秀的女人，請女孩們合理的利用自己的美貌，千萬不要因為自己的短暫的美貌而讓自己沉淪。

九、離開任何一個男人，你都會活的很好
女孩到了二十幾歲，就要理智的對待自己的情感，很多女孩就是因為某個男人而痛苦且消極的活著，感情的事情並不是誰能把握得了，為什麼要被一個男人而讓自己陷入不愉快的心情中呢？一個不懂得欣賞你的男人，沒有資格讓你為他難過悲傷，每一個女孩都是美麗的，她在等待著一個懂她的男人出現，某個男人的離開，只能說那個懂你的男人還沒有出現，男人不是女孩生活的全部，與其讓自己陷入到一個無望的愛情中，不如瀟灑的轉身，充實自己，讓自己投入到工作學習中，等有一天那個離開你的男人發現你是如此的成功，一定會後悔他當初離開你的！
曾經我也以為我離開了他我不能活了，後來我問自己一百遍：離開了他，我還能不能活？結果有一百二十遍回答是：我會活的很好。女孩們千萬不要踐踏了自己，不要以為委曲求全就能換來一個男人的愛情，愛情是美麗的，女孩子也是美麗的，不容任何一個男人褻瀆！離開那個不懂欣賞你的男人，這就是最華麗的轉身，雖然心有不甘，但是痛苦的折磨反而讓自己沒有精力去經營你的工作或學習。

十、有著理財的動機，學會投資經營
女孩到了二十幾歲，就要開始學會理財了，不要以為自己無法成為富翁，就花錢大手大腳的，也不要認為明天有掙不完的錢，而把今天的錢花在不應該花的地方。現在市場上有很多關於理財方面的書，都是不錯的，女孩子們有時間可以看一下，要養成理財的好習慣，用錢生錢，可以多看了些投資經營方面的書籍，它們都是無形的財富。女孩們，不管現在你的收入有多少，都要為你的明天打算著，聰明的女人應該知道如何的花錢，如何花錢其實也是一門藝術。
Marry的老公是一個很有錢的男人，她有次跟我說他的老公，她說：我老公有的時候寧願花很多錢去買一樣東西，卻在花小錢的時候計較。當時不懂，後來想想才發現，他老公之所以有錢就是因為他知道如何去花錢，把錢花在實用的東西上，不管是多麼的貴都可以不眨下眼睛，而生活中有些多餘的錢能省就省了。有些有錢人在生活中也會表現出吝嗇，這就是他們一直以來的習慣，不然，他們是不會成為有錢人的。

十一、愛情和婚姻是可以共同擁有的
女孩到了二十幾歲，就要面臨著婚姻的壓力了，有人會說愛情跟婚姻是兩碼事，男人娶的女人是能一起過日子的，並不一定就是自己真正深愛的，女人嫁的男人是能給自己提供一個溫暖且安逸的家，但並不定就是自己真正愛的。面對這些言論，好像很多人是為了結婚而結婚的，在家庭與社會的壓力下，為了結婚而結婚了。有些人結婚也是有目的性的，可能是為了讓自己有個地方停留，也可能是為了以後的事業有所幫助，也有可能是自己能從對方身上得到什麼。
問一下那些甜蜜中的新婚，就會知道有時候愛情與婚姻是可以共同擁有的，所謂的婚姻是愛情的墳墓，只能說雙方不懂得如何去經營愛情，相信當兩個人決定結婚前，雙方一定是對方有感覺的，只是婚後的日子讓愛情變平淡了。這僅僅只是因為在婚姻以後，男人與女人都放下了愛情中的浪漫，投入到了工作中去。那些沒結婚的女孩，千萬不要為了某些目的而去結婚，結婚是非常單純的事情，別搞的那麼複雜，相信每個女孩都是渴望著愛情的。當女孩遇到自己深愛的那個人時，就會發現，想跟他在一起，可能無所謂貧富，無所謂生死。女孩不要為了結婚而結婚，也不要為了想得到某種生活而結婚。

十二、誰說女人不如男
女孩到了二十幾歲，就要堅信不管是在生活中還是在職場中，並不只有男人才能有建樹的，現在女性的思想都新潮了，成功的女人在各行各業中都有出現，只要女人努力了，她同樣可以在男人的世界裡穿梭。女人的資本有很多，在職場中女人略顯優勢，在有些行業裡，女人會發揮著自己獨特的優勢去拼博著，她們都是美麗的，幹練的氣質，強硬的態度，都可以讓男人臣服。女人不要總想著在廚房發展，有能力的女人才能夠讓男人們欣賞，現在不流行家庭主婦的角色了，外面有著大把精彩的世界等待著女人去追求。
女人不要想依附一個男人，在這個社會裡，沒有誰一定要沒有理由的呵護誰。女人如何依附了一個男人，她就沒有自己的思想，在這個個性使然的環境中，男人也都喜歡有個性有能力的女人。誰說女人不如男？努力吧，只要你擁有了屬於自己的一片天空，你還害怕自己的這片天空下沒有白雲嗎？只要你是一個才華出眾的女人，還害怕優秀的男人不欣賞你嗎？


十三、找一個能夠幫你實現夢想的老公
女孩到了二十幾歲後，就要有著明確的夢想，然後再為了這個夢想去奮鬥著，當你確定了一個夢想後千萬不要改變，就好像當你發現到一個可以幫你實現夢想的男人，千萬要想辦法讓他成為你的老公一樣。女人不要以為有些夢想自己一個人就可以實現的，或者有些非常優秀的女人，特立獨行的想通過自己的努力來實現夢想，但是如果有著男人做後盾，這個夢想就能得到很好的實現，特別是能提供資金支持的男人。
現在在生活裡有夢想的女孩似乎很少，有些女孩只不過是想要擁有著簡單的工作與簡單的愛情，與一個男人在一起幸福的生活。而真正優秀的男人，他們也會希望自己的老婆是有抱負的女人，所以，如果女人有夢想，男人會全力支持的。女人完全可以讓自己的夢想跟隨著自己一起嫁給一個男人，只要他願意幫你實現夢想，就說明他是一個懂得欣賞你的男人。


十四、讓青春放肆一些，笑容燦爛一些
女孩到了二十幾歲後，就是正值青春年華，有著大把的青春可以放肆的嶄放。女孩子可以適當的時候倔強一些，可以適當的時候驕傲一些，可以讓那些美麗的嘴角微微的牽動著。二十幾歲的女孩是最美的，可以肆意的笑，可以倔強的哭。二十幾歲的女孩不要怕輸，青春才剛剛開始，我們有著輸的資本，我們可以重新開始自己的追求。二十幾歲的女孩要做最真的自己，最美的年華留給燦爛的微笑，讓愛情都鮮明的呈現，要敢愛敢恨，敢於追求。

女孩到了二十幾歲後，就是一朵盛開最美麗的花，女孩的一季花期一定要記得只開給自己看，千萬不要為了別人讓自己的花期接受不必要的摧殘。二十幾歲的女孩是一杯清茶，其中的清秀一定要留給懂得品嚐的人，別讓那些沒有品味的人踐踏了你的清純氣息。二十幾歲的女孩是片蔚藍色的天空，它可是悲傷的，也可以是寬敞的，但，請記住，它一定是有追求的.....

How to Attract Boys during the Valentine's Day

Who say Valentine's Day is only for those who are in a relationship?

for those who are still single,

No worry, 

Time to get dress up and attract your target!!!

This look is definitely suitable for everyone and super easy to do!

Get yourself some time and enchant your day with pretty look!

The tutorial:

Another song was made for this Valentine's Day:

Didn't sing it with my baby guitar because I keep my nail long long with CNY ><

Btw, if you wanna ask me what I will do for this Valentine's day, 

I'm sorry I might disappoint you guys..

cause I'm just going to go back to my dad's hometown today.

Nothing special, really.

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Anyway, hope you guys enjoy your day!!! :)

*Lots of love from me <3

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Stupid Person Do Stupid Thing

Buddy, I've accidentally deleted at least 10 blog entries. AT LEAST.

I don't what the heck am I doing, selected the posts in the draft sections and press "delete". Seriously I don't know why the published posts got deleted as well. 

CONCLUSION: I AM STUPID. 

I don't think I will re-update the posts that I stupidly deleted, but may be just give you guys the photoshoot album back on the blog as that is one of my favourite shooting ever. The whole point was "STUPID".

I. AM. DUMB.

不要把我当分数主义者

不要把我当分数主义者，很hurt的咯！

就算我的成绩好，也不是因为我注重分数好不好？

我要求的是完美，用你每一份心思去完成一份任务，

而分数只是一个用来测量完美的量器。

我不是因为分数而把一件事情做得完美，

我做每一样事情都是细心的去做，细心的考量每一个因数和成果，
慢慢的而且又很吃力，才能完成一份任务， 

而不是因为要取得好的分数才做事的好不好？

不要听取我的意见就算了， 不要连我的人格也拿来批评。

我知道我还有很多弱点，所以我不都敢吭一声你的不是。

再说一次：功课我一定会用心去做，但不是因为分数而去做。你看我做别件与分数无关的事，我也一样很用心思的去完成，就算没有功劳，我都会挖了我的心脏去做的！

okay, talking nonsense here. Too emotional today...

忍一忍,

事情会过去的。

是，我就是在生气你。xD

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Love's in the Air

Hi, trying to make myself some free time to write a new post. I just love blogging. Well, it was a disaster yesterday, my exam didn't go well, and I'm so desperate about it.

Taken @ McD, Kota Bharu

But anyway, since today is a no-exam-day, I've decided to write a "love" post for you guys. Remember I said I love you more than I should. haha.

Not write, it's shown in the pictures. I grabbed them from facebook where my friend were sharing this morning. I find it quite interesting, but some of them are just not realistic, what do you feel then?

#1

Respond: No proof lo k... if a man treat you like a princess, mean he's what? You maid? I would rather make him as a pet. A useful pet. haha.

#2

Respond: This is nice. <3

#3

Respond: Couldn't agree more.. ;)

#4

Respond: If you hurt this kind of person, I'll kick the ass out of you! ><

#5

Respond: God makes life beautiful, there won't be too sucks. but I do really need a hug if it really happened. ;)

#6

Respond: PERFECT QUOTE EVER!

#7

Respond: I doubt that..... @.@

 #8

Respond: if ever a guy respond to this, they are really dreaming, cause it's never realistic. You think yourself so perfect ar?

#9

Respond: if all the women do so everytime they faces a problem, I think there'll be many patients in Tanjung Rambutan already. And I personally think that not only woman who say "I'm fine" is a strong woman, cause every person got the right to express the feeling to the others. What's the point of having a bf? To tell him all your stuff la!

#10

Respond: Quote for the women, but never be real. We are not robots and we can't be perfect.

#11: Last Quote and I think the baby is Super CUTE! xD

Respond: I think love need to be expressed, not hide inside your heart and think that your partner will know about it. You think your hearts are connected like the computer mieh? So expressed your heart out! ;)

Okay, the above responds are just upon my own view, you all sure have different view but don't blame me, that's just what I want to say. Hehe.



Readers: What's your opinion then? Are they all realistic?

Respond: Give me yours.. hehe

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